Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

am i like this?

HUMANMETRICS

YOUR TYPE
E N F J
Strength of the preferences %
56 12 50 56
Jung Career Indicator™ determines careers most suitable for your type from personality type standpoint. Based on your personality type, the following is a list of your most suitable occupations along with some examples of educational institutions, where you can receive a relevant degree or training. Please click institution name for more information. Invite your friends to discover most suitable for them careers.
Career Educational Institutions
Social Service
Counseling
Psychology
Social Work
Education
Public Health
Physician

Science/Technical
Science
Computer Programming
Management
Management
Fashion Merchandising
Politics
Famous people of your particular type
Bill Clinton, Tony Blair, Clara Barton (Founder of the American Red Cross), Ronald Reagan

ENFJs are the benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity. They have tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant tutelage and/or grand schemes. Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.

ENFJs are global learners. They see the big picture. The ENFJs focus is expansive. Some can juggle an amazing number of responsibilities or projects simultaneously. Many ENFJs have tremendous entrepreneurial ability.

ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs in organization of the environment nor occasional recalcitrance. ENFJs are organized in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.

ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.

TRADEMARK: "The first shall be last"
This refers to the open-door policy of ENFJs. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances. If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need. While discussing that need, the phone rings and he stops to answer it. Others drop in with a 'quick question.' I finally get up, go to my office and use the call waiting feature on the telephone. When he hangs up, I have his undivided attention!

Functional Analysis:
Extraverted Feeling
Extraverted Feeling rules the ENFJ's psyche. In the sway of this rational function, these folks are predisposed to closure in matters pertaining to people, and especially on behalf of their beloved. As extraverts, their contacts are wide ranging. Face-to-face relationships are intense, personable and warm, though they may be so infrequently achieved that intimate friendships are rare.
Introverted iNtuition
Like their INFJ cousins, ENFJs are blessed through introverted intuition with clarity of perception in the inner, unconscious world. Dominant Feeling prefers to find the silver lining in even the most beggarly perceptions of those in their expanding circle of friends and, of course, in themselves. In less balanced individuals, such mitigation of the unseemly eventually undermines the ENFJ's integrity and frequently their good name. In healthier individuals, deft use of this awareness of the inner needs and desires of others enables this astute type to win friends, influence people, and avoid compromising entanglements.

The dynamic nature of their intuition moves ENFJs from one project to another with the assurance that the next one will be perfect, or much more nearly so than the last. ENFJs are continually looking for newer and better solutions to benefit their extensive family, staff, or organization.
Extraverted Sensing
Sensing is extraverted. ENFJs can manage details, particularly those necessary to implement the prevailing vision. These data have, however, a magical flexible quality. Something to be bought can be had for a song; the same something is invaluable when it's time to sell. (We are not certain, but we suspect that such is the influence of the primary function.) This wavering of sensory perception is made possible by the weaker and less mature status with which the tertiary is endowed.
Introverted Thinking
Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.

Even more than the other Idealists, Teachers have a natural talent for leading students or trainees toward learning, or as Idealists like to think of it, they are capable of calling forth each learner's potentials. Teachers (around two percent of the population) are able - effortlessly, it seems, and almost endlessly-to dream up fascinating learning activities for their students to engage in. In some Teachers, this ability to fire the imagination can amount to a kind of genius which other types find hard to emulate. But perhaps their greatest strength lies in their belief in their students. Teachers look for the best in their students, and communicate clearly that each one has untold potential, and this confidence can inspire their students to grow and develop more than they ever thought possible.

In whatever field they choose, Teachers consider people their highest priority, and they instinctively communicate personal concern and a willingness to become involved. Warmly outgoing, and perhaps the most expressive of all the types, Teachers are remarkably good with language, especially when communicating in speech, face to face. And they do not hesitate to speak out and let their feelings be known. Bubbling with enthusiasm, Teachers will voice their passions with dramatic flourish, and can, with practice, become charismatic public speakers. This verbal ability gives Teachers a good deal of influence in groups, and they are often asked to take a leadership role.

Teachers like things settled and organized, and will schedule their work hours and social engagements well ahead of time-and they are absolutely trustworthy in honoring these commitments. Valuing as they do interpersonal cooperation and harmonious relations, Teachers are extraordinarily tolerant of others, are easy to get along with, and are usually popular wherever they are.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

seriously feeling damn babi hutan on new year's eve..

went to ss15.. after that when take care my car that time, the tyres are flat! like FLAT kau.. must have kena paku on the way back from sban for sure.. it's like zero air.. haih..

then after changed to spare which to me felt like ages thou was oni 20 mins only to realise that i have to settle my own brunch... i thought can eat mc d double prosperity burger without burning a hole in my pocket cuz eat with dad but in the end have to settle to eat at sukumaran cuz it's the oni restaurant open today..

only to realise some jackass idiot (i don't wanna name the race here but it's sukumaran so you'll guess it) didn't look at the back before reversing from the parking lot and reversed straight into me while i was stopping to wait for another person's parking...

knnccbwtf-to-the-power-of-infinity.. i got down from the car and the other party's father came and say sorry sorry sorry... my retort was like
'are you trying to ruin my cny ah?'
'sorry sorry didn't see'
'then teach your son to watch the mirror before reversing la man!'
'sorry'

after reversing out that guy's son didn't even come out and say sorry.. just drove off.. and that pissed me off! WEV 6730 mercedes benz. seriously... i was ok and didn't try to make a commotion... i mean ppl make mistakes la.. but then his son which is not much younger than me didn't even look at me in the eye and say sorry in fact drove off WITH THE F-CKING MIDDLE FINGER IN FRONT OF SUKUMARAN!!!!!! when it was him who knocked my car..

verdict? i'm going to usj police station and lodge a report for... ?hit and run, ?causing emotional trauma, or ?just-to-get-back-at-you.. the damage is in fact quite minor as compared to last time when i trashed my front bonet of my car... just some paint gone oni.. but too bad for that guy.. or am i just too unforgiving? i don't think so.. i guess i was ok after his father said sorry.. his son was the one who pulled the plug.. i mean has anyone hit your car and gave you the finger? i mean wtf!!! i was patiently waiting for another car to reverse, and the blind driver din look at the back of the car and just drove out hitting me..

no sorry with middle finger = visit to the balai and report = hope they come fine u $300 so you can't have that nike/adidas/prada/gucci/i phone/nokia/blackberry after paying the fine.. haha! lol..

Sunday, February 07, 2010

towards the end, you will have engaged in mutual fixation one too many a times, and as you continue to do so, ask yourself if these images of suffering are falling on your retina like so many layers of snow on a barren land, or whether just sometimes you might allow your eye to thaw and resolve itself into perhaps just one true tear...
i see it's a full moon tonite.
it doesn't matter where you are in the world,
it's never bigger than your thumb.

*puts his thumb overlapping the moon as he walked down the beach with her*

Dear John



On nights like this when i can't sleep a wink, i search for new upcoming movies and voila! this one is really really good. simply becuase it's from the novel of NICHOLAS SPARKS..

nicky sparks has always always been my fav author.. in fact, the books he wrote was so emotionally binding that when i read them, i could always revisit them at any time without having the thoughts of what would come next. simply because the style of writing was just so good that i can't let down the book when i'm reading.

the notebook, his very first one was my first book i read from him back then in sec school. and yeah.. dear john, from book to movie, i have no qualms in watching it.. because it's from nicky! and i have been reading a walk to remember, message in a bottle and bend in the road over and over again for the past couple of months..

it's always a welcome read, it's always a revisit to the past, it's always a drop of tear that roll down the cheek.

perhaps that he wrote it in a very down to earth heart warming way which captures my heart. and yeah.. i'm just soooo gonna get 'dear john' from mph soon.. plus the mesa that i've been dreaming about if my ang pow money is good this year around..

of late the time of this night,
i lay down to bed with the moon in sight,
whispering trees, will you walk with me?
embrace me in my dreamland to be?
hit the sack jen lye! come to bed with burdens light!
with a sigh, bade the world good night...

Saturday, February 06, 2010

if i was given a chance to love,
what more i would give in me?
like a rose that bloom from the earth,
i'd give That rose to Thee.

thou art so fair and so lovely,
locks of hair flutters gently,
Thy eyes captured of this story,
walk with me,
fly with me,
to between of worlds we flee.

jen lye
6/2/2010